{"id":4250,"date":"2022-07-01T09:56:44","date_gmt":"2022-07-01T09:56:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dev-alumn-nus.pantheonsite.io\/alumnus\/?p=4250"},"modified":"2025-07-15T16:07:58","modified_gmt":"2025-07-15T08:07:58","slug":"bear-ing-it-with-grace","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/alumni.nus.edu.sg\/thealumnus\/2022\/07\/01\/bear-ing-it-with-grace\/","title":{"rendered":"Bear-ing It With Grace"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"4250\" class=\"elementor elementor-4250\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-d9e0a94 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"d9e0a94\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-b3f27de\" data-id=\"b3f27de\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-050130a elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"050130a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Young parents learn a lot about caring for their kids from their loved ones and fellow parents. But Ms Trisha Tay picked up parenting tips from a unique source: Jia Jia and Kai Kai, the two giant pandas she has been looking after since 2012. Tasks like feeding the animals multiple times a day and settling them in for naps were like a preview of parenthood, says Ms Tay, 38.<\/p><p>That \u201cglimpse into the future\u201d came in handy when she had children of her own. \u201cI see similarities between parenting young children and training animals,\u201d explains the mother of two children aged eight and five. \u201cThings don\u2019t always go your way, and you always need to factor in whether the children or animals ate properly, are being moody or did not sleep well.\u201d<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-9347a9c elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"9347a9c\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-7bd3d73\" data-id=\"7bd3d73\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-49d3df2 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"49d3df2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<figure class=\"wp-caption\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" src=\"https:\/\/alumni.nus.edu.sg\/thealumnus\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2025\/05\/path-2-1024x683.jpg\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-4252\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/alumni.nus.edu.sg\/thealumnus\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2025\/05\/path-2-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/alumni.nus.edu.sg\/thealumnus\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2025\/05\/path-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/alumni.nus.edu.sg\/thealumnus\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2025\/05\/path-2-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/alumni.nus.edu.sg\/thealumnus\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2025\/05\/path-2-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/alumni.nus.edu.sg\/thealumnus\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2025\/05\/path-2.jpg 1620w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<figcaption class=\"widget-image-caption wp-caption-text\">Ms Tay checking on Le Le, then 78 days old, on 30 Oct 2021. <\/figcaption>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-c330788 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"c330788\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-c121665\" data-id=\"c121665\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e89b33b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"e89b33b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Being so close to Jia Jia and Kai Kai means that Ms Tay can easily identify the traits of each that have passed on to their cub Le Le, who was born to much fanfare last year. \u201cHe is fast in figuring things out and remembering how to climb up and down certain structures, like Jia Jia who is quite smart. But he is also calm like his dad, Kai Kai.\u201d She adds with pride, \u201cLe Le is growing well and getting much better at climbing in the exhibit with Jia Jia. Like all cubs, he is playful and curious, and loves exploring his environment. He seems to take after his mum a little more.\u201d<\/p><p>Her eyes brighten as she describes the giant panda family, revealing just how zealous she is about her job. It makes sense: after all, this been a lifelong passion for Ms Tay, who started volunteering at the Singapore Zoo as a keeper at the age of 15. \u201cI would volunteer once a week with different animals,\u201d she says. She enjoyed it so much that she considered quitting junior college at one point. \u201cBut my mother talked me out of it and I decided to take up Life Sciences at NUS.\u201d<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-f6336bd elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"f6336bd\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-66 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-7d61e2c\" data-id=\"7d61e2c\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-17b0e38 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"17b0e38\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><strong>WHAT IT TAKES<\/strong><br \/>Five traits that people working with animals need, according to Ms Tay:<\/p><ul><li>A keen sense of observation<\/li><li>Patience to train the animals<\/li><li>A can-do attitude to take on new challenges<\/li><li>Being adaptable<\/li><li>Remaining calm in various situations<\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-33 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-77e1c8f\" data-id=\"77e1c8f\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-571d6eb elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" 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https:\/\/alumni.nus.edu.sg\/thealumnus\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2025\/05\/path-3-1024x1536.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/alumni.nus.edu.sg\/thealumnus\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2025\/05\/path-3.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<figcaption class=\"widget-image-caption wp-caption-text\">Ms Tay and her family. <\/figcaption>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-d3b114c elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"d3b114c\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-0983a06\" data-id=\"0983a06\" 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https:\/\/alumni.nus.edu.sg\/thealumnus\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2025\/05\/path-4.jpg 1272w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<figcaption class=\"widget-image-caption wp-caption-text\">Placing treats for her charges in their exhibit.<\/figcaption>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/figure>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-5a888df elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"5a888df\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-e87b7ad\" data-id=\"e87b7ad\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2b649b4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2b649b4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><strong>A WALK ON THE WILD SIDE<\/strong><\/p><p>Upon graduation and after a short stint overseas, Ms Tay worked at a desk job but found herself uninspired. \u201cI was unsure what to pursue next and took a while to figure this out before coming back to volunteering at the zoo \u2014 and eventually joined the animal care team,\u201d she says. In some ways, she started a second career when her peers were already established in the paths they had taken early on. Yet Ms Tay has no regrets. \u201cThis was something I wanted to pursue when I was younger, so it made sense for me to start off here again as I had the relevant volunteer experience and educational qualifications.\u201d But she admits that it is not always butterflies and rainbows. \u201cEvery career, (even one that you\u2019re passionate about), has good and bad parts, ups and downs, and it will never be smooth sailing all the way,\u201d she shares. \u201cDuring stressful periods, you might wonder if this is really for you \u2014 but if you don\u2019t find yourself dreading to go to work each morning and still find joy in your job, then keep pursuing your passion. Sometimes, the rainbow comes just after the rain!\u201d<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-11ab552 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"11ab552\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-1446dd5\" data-id=\"1446dd5\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ecb9b4e elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"ecb9b4e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h6 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Photos by Mandai Wildlife Group<\/h6>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Caring for the River Wonders\u2019 most high-profile inhabitants has taught Ms Trisha Tay Ting Ni (Science \u201905) about parenting, passion and perseverance.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4251,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"elementor_theme","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4250","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-leadership"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/alumni.nus.edu.sg\/thealumnus\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4250","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/alumni.nus.edu.sg\/thealumnus\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/alumni.nus.edu.sg\/thealumnus\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alumni.nus.edu.sg\/thealumnus\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alumni.nus.edu.sg\/thealumnus\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4250"}],"version-history":[{"count":10,"href":"https:\/\/alumni.nus.edu.sg\/thealumnus\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4250\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5016,"href":"https:\/\/alumni.nus.edu.sg\/thealumnus\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4250\/revisions\/5016"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alumni.nus.edu.sg\/thealumnus\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4251"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/alumni.nus.edu.sg\/thealumnus\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4250"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alumni.nus.edu.sg\/thealumnus\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4250"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alumni.nus.edu.sg\/thealumnus\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4250"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}